The prospect of going to college is overwhelming for both parents and students. There
are so many variables to manage you are unsure where to start. This is normal and part
of the process. First off, start with your child’s loves and interests don’t rule out any
schools or ideas in the beginning just brainstorm. Then, begin to look for colleges that
fuel your child’s dreams. You will want to create a list of schools and keep track. (Click
the link to access a free editable document). Once you have a top list then you can
narrow the field of the actual applications. Start by compiling a list of likely schools
(ones you exceed the average admission criteria), target schools (ones you meet the
admission criteria), and dream schools (ones that are a bit of a reach).
There are many factors to consider when adding colleges to your list:
available majors
cost
location, size
atmosphere
housing options
demographics
extracurricular activities
campus atmosphere
However, once you visit a school in person or virtually you may change your mind. It is
important to remain open and calm as you work through your choices. Be sure to listen
to your gut and don’t argue the small points.
My daughter was sure she wanted a small, quiet school, but once we stepped onto the
campus of the largest school in the country she immediately felt at home. Her search
was over. Be aware of visiting campuses in the rain. It is often a turn off for prospective
students. A student I know was sure she wanted a small prestigious private school, but
toured the school in the pouring rain and just couldn’t get the cold, damp feeling out of
her mind.
Often students focus on state schools because of the cost, but many private schools
and out of state schools offer large scholarships so don’t rule them out right away if you
love the school. Be sure you can visualize yourself happy at any of the schools on your
list even your safe choices. Ultimately it is the feel and fit that will determine your new
college home!